SKSlide Posted August 15, 2021 Report Share Posted August 15, 2021 Guys, after getting my 3rd bass boat I just have a few things I've found to be annoying when bringing others along. Keep in mind I never ask for anything. I pay for gas, ice, etc. All you have to do is ride....sign here.. My boat is not a brand new, 75,000 boat but to me it is something I take pride in and love. Its a lot of work to keep it looking nice and keep it up so just because it isn't a brand new boat doesn't mean you aren't obligated to treat it as such as it isn't your property nor your right to decide how to treat it based on its age. My boat and storage compartments are yours to use while we're out but my boat is not a trash can or ashtray ,so whatever you bring, including cigarettes and food, etc you need to properly dispose of and make sure it isn't left behind for me to clean up..you are not a child. Once again, respect my property and just be a decent human being. No ashes on my carpet, no food left on my carpet. Also, do not bring your dye for your baits. If you want to use it on your boats be my guest but as my guest you will not. You will not dictate when the trip ends if you are going with me. You will leave when I am ready if you've ridden with me to the lake in my vehicle. If you want to leave early meet me at the ramp in your own car and I'll drop you at the dock. You will not dictate to me how and where we fish unless you have more knowledge and expertise than I do. Ideas are welcomed and if I agree we will try it. Otherwise I put fish in the boat and we'll do what I think is best given the conditions and situation. Do not move my equipment out of the way to make more room for you and your crap. You will not make it less convenient for me in my own boat. Do not break down my net because you think it takes up a lot of space. You will leave it together so we are ready for a big fish when needed. If you break it down and I lose a big fish because of it you won't be going again soon, not with me. Is this unreasonable guys? I think not. StriperAddict, Toro blanco, NicePizzaBass and 7 others 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_zoso Posted August 15, 2021 Report Share Posted August 15, 2021 I'd sign my human rights away to get off the bank for a day. What you're asking is more than fair. 168 Rookie, DrewManFishing, willlliw and 3 others 4 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asavamedhi Posted August 15, 2021 Report Share Posted August 15, 2021 I agree with the whole respect my boat part. IMO, The unfortunate thing is that you cannot change the way someone is. Now, from the get go, if they do not already assume that they shouldn't be doing those things, then I think I wouldn't want to take them fishing in the first place. As a boat owner, I am cautious about this and I just learned to be more aware on who I invite fishing. I believe it really comes down to that, unfortunately. When you see someone doing something you don't like, I would politely mention to them if they can "take the trash out at the launch" or "throw cigarette ash overboard instead"..etc. If they don't respect your comment, then you have your answer. SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basskickinrednick Posted August 15, 2021 Report Share Posted August 15, 2021 I thought it was common sense to respect other people's stuff. But common sense isn't so common lol SKSlide, Jim137a, chevro1et and 5 others 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim137a Posted August 15, 2021 Report Share Posted August 15, 2021 Another reason I fish alone 95% of the time…. If I do fish with someone they can meet me there and leave when they want. SKSlide and CG_Fishes 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stkbass Posted August 15, 2021 Report Share Posted August 15, 2021 I totally understand this. I try to only invite ppl I know have that understanding. Most ppl that have not owned a boat don't have a clue what a boat owner goes through to make a trip. If they aren't sharing costs with you anyways.. why bring them? Morph808 and SKSlide 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLargie Posted August 15, 2021 Report Share Posted August 15, 2021 Pretty specific. Last outing must have been bad!! Respect your captain! SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro blanco Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 More than reasonable and totaly understandable. SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoCalBassBum Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 I fish solo 95% of the time just so I dont have to look like the "A" hole and remind people to respect my boat and stay out of my way. SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mossyback Angler Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 5 hours ago, SKSlide said: Guys, after getting my 3rd bass boat I just have a few things I've found to be annoying when bringing others along. Keep in mind I never ask for anything. I pay for gas, ice, etc. All you have to do is ride....sign here.. My boat is not a brand new, 75,000 boat but to me it is something I take pride in and love. Its a lot of work to keep it looking nice and keep it up so just because it isn't a brand new boat doesn't mean you aren't obligated to treat it as such as it isn't your property nor your right to decide how to treat it based on its age. My boat and storage compartments are yours to use while we're out but my boat is not a trash can or ashtray ,so whatever you bring, including cigarettes and food, etc you need to properly dispose of and make sure it isn't left behind for me to clean up..you are not a child. Once again, respect my property and just be a decent human being. No ashes on my carpet, no food left on my carpet. Also, do not bring your dye for your baits. If you want to use it on your boats be my guest but as my guest you will not. You will not dictate when the trip ends if you are going with me. You will leave when I am ready if you've ridden with me to the lake in my vehicle. If you want to leave early meet me at the ramp in your own car and I'll drop you at the dock. You will not dictate to me how and where we fish unless you have more knowledge and expertise than I do. Ideas are welcomed and if I agree we will try it. Otherwise I put fish in the boat and we'll do what I think is best given the conditions and situation. Do not move my equipment out of the way to make more room for you and your crap. You will not make it less convenient for me in my own boat. Do not break down my net because you think it takes up a lot of space. You will leave it together so we are ready for a big fish when needed. If you break it down and I lose a big fish because of it you won't be going again soon, not with me. Is this unreasonable guys? I think not. Well said. Not unreasonable at all. It's all pretty much common sense. However, as an old timer once told me, he said "You know Chris, sometimes common sense, is not so common". I never forgot that quote. SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rwp Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 I bought a boat to get away from people, not to bring people with me. SoCalBassBum, SKSlide and Jim137a 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BayAreaAngler Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 I feel the same way. And I don’t even have a boat or yak… I’m on a inflatable “raft” lololo SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jp_midwest Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 6 hours ago, _zoso said: I'd sign my human rights away to get off the bank for a day. What you're asking is more than fair. yup. _zoso and SKSlide 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darklord Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 Yup its common sense at least i would think so! SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hydrocephalic Posted August 16, 2021 Report Share Posted August 16, 2021 Why even bother with someone who treats your stuff like that SKSlide 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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